In Loving Memory of Emory “Jake” Spraggins
August 9, 1945 – July 15, 2025
Emory “Jake” Spraggins passed away on July 15, 2025, at the age of 79, leaving behind a legacy of resilience, service, and unwavering love. His life was a testament to grit, sacrifice, and the healing power of family.
Born on August 9, 1945, in Rockford, Illinois, Jake was the third of five children raised in a small, three-bedroom house on a corner lot. Life at home was far from easy. Though his early years were marked by emotional hardship, Jake remained a sweet, affectionate child—beloved by his father, older sisters, and extended family. His wide blue eyes, gentle spirit, and early talent as a singer and guitarist made him unforgettable to those who truly knew him.
Jake worked hard from a young age, holding a paper route through freezing Illinois winters and apprenticing in his father’s welding shop. He carried those skills with him throughout his life. Though he was intelligent, curious, and full of potential, the emotional wounds of childhood led him to question his own worth. Despite being accepted into the University of Arizona to study history, Jake left college before graduating, to serve his country.
In 1967, Jake enlisted in the U.S. Army and volunteered to serve in Vietnam. Jake served his first harrowing tour from 1967 to 1968. He volunteered for a second tour as a member of a Long Range Reconnaissance Patrol (LRRP) unit, which later became the 75th Ranger Regiment, then falling under the Special Operations Command, one of the most dangerous assignments in the war. His bravery, sharp mind, and quiet determination earned him the nickname “Old Man” from his fellow soldiers. He was even featured in the book Rangers at War, a testament to his courage and the lasting impression he left on those he served beside.
After returning home, Jake moved to California and found the love of his life, Martie. They married in 1971 and spent 50 devoted years together until her passing in 2021. Together, they raised nine children—five biological: Nate, Jessica, Blaine, Melissa, and Megan; and four adopted: Alisha, Leo, Zach, and Jacob. For over a decade, they also welcomed foster children, opening their hearts to sibling groups and children with special needs.
Jake later earned his degree in Philosophy from Missouri State University, a quiet but powerful statement of his intellect and tenacity. He was a deep thinker, a talented musician, and a man of great emotional courage. His hands were calloused from years of hard work, but they were always open—to help, to hug, to hold.
He leaves behind 23 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter, each carrying forward a part of his heart, his humor, and his strength.
Jake lived through war, hardship, and personal trials, but he never let the past define the kind of father, husband, or man he chose to be. He gave his family the kind of love he never received as a child, and in doing so, changed the trajectory of generations.
A lunch and celebration of Jake’s life will be held on Friday, July 18, 2025 from 1-3pm at the Historic Post Office, 204 East Main Street, West Plains, Missouri 65775